The initial stage of married life always implies a bright, rich sex life. But what if everything is fine in family life, but there is no sex? The first thing that may come to mind is cheating on the side, as a result of which the desire for sexual contact in the family disappears. But if this is still not the case, then it is worth thinking about other, deeper reasons related to the health of a man. This problem should be approached delicately, and for this it is necessary to know what a wife should do if her husband is impotent.

Causes of impotence

The psychology of men is such that most of them prefer to hide their problems, especially the inability to please the other half in bed.

In order to live with an impotent husband, you need to know the reasons why erectile dysfunction may occur

Psychological component:

• Unfavorable microclimate in the family - lack of spiritual intimacy, rude ridicule of the problems and shortcomings of a man, a clear demonstration of sexual dissatisfaction, constant criticism in private or in public.
• Workload, excessive physical fatigue or strong mental stress.
• Stressful situations (moves, dissatisfaction with oneself, death of loved ones, etc.).

Physiological problems:

Such diseases often reduce the blood supply to the genitals, making an erection impossible. The likelihood that problems may be associated with the presence of a serious disease is quite high. In this case, the primary issue will be the inability to have sexual intercourse, and the identification of the disease and its complex treatment. Therefore, you need to decide what to do if the husband is impotent and does not want to be treated. A woman should at this moment provide maximum psychological support and persuade her husband to undergo an examination and begin treatment.

The main rule is a calm attitude to the problem. Not indifferent, but calm. A lot depends on the behavior of a woman during this period. A few tips for successfully overcoming the problem:

Possible Mistakes in Wife's Behavior

A woman's biggest mistake is to panic., showing excessive concern, or, conversely, completely ignoring the problem.

You should not look for the guilty, it is important at this moment to work in tandem - to support each other and tune in to a favorable outcome.

A general discussion with relatives or girlfriends is not an option, this should also be forgotten, since this will greatly affect the husband's self-esteem.

As Kozma Prutkov said: "Look at the root!" To do this, I propose to interrupt the above question in the middle: is it worth continuing to live with a man? Do you understand what I mean? With this man? With such, I'm not afraid of this word, personality? After all, a man is only partly a member of the family. And he is also the brain, heart, soul ... Do you feel the difference ?!

So… If you understand that you don’t need this man, you don’t love him, and only habit or calculation keeps you next to him, then what, tell me, does it matter: is he impotent or a sexual giant? That's right - none! Get away from him. Not from the impotent, but from the unloved. And go towards love and happiness! Yes, hurry up.

If you, after thinking and weighing all the advantages / disadvantages of your chosen one, and most importantly, without doubting that you were connected by love (the rarest gift of God, by the way), you answer the first part of the question: “It’s worth it!”, Then the second part of it part, answer without hesitation: "Definitely!"

But know that it won't be easy. Staying next to an impotent man, you chose the hard way. Moreover, you will have to follow this path, most likely, not just together with him, but for two. Also constantly strengthening his hope, patience and nourishing his strength. But the road, as you know, will be mastered by the walking one. Therefore, go ahead! And now don’t stop yourself for a moment and don’t let your man despair.

Do you remember the win-win formula for passing through walls from the movie "Wizards"?
"See the goal, believe in yourself and ignore the obstacles!"

"See the target...
Your goal - a return to a full sexual life - is extremely clear, mutual and, pleasantly, very desirable. And the desirability of the goal is much more important than just its visibility. This is almost half the success.

…believe in yourself…
What will help strengthen faith in yourself (and most importantly - in him)? Regular stats!
Studies show that in 98% of cases, impotence is completely curable. You, I hope, will not bother with an insignificant 2%?! By the way, do not forget that these 2% also include completely decrepit old people and those who have a direct injury to a precious organ or are completely deprived of it by accident. So if we discard such extreme options, then perhaps the statistics would be 100%.

... and ignore the obstacles!"
This is, of course, the most difficult. For, do not delude yourself, there will be many obstacles. And they will appear at almost every step. However, there is only one way out - do not notice! That is the key to success. And there is a very understandable explanation for that.
The result is always 100%. The only question is what it consists of. If the chances are 99%, then only 1% of the effort will be required from a person to make everything come true. This is the easiest way. But not everyone and not always so lucky. If the chances are 1%, then 99% of the effort will be required. This is the hardest way. But possible! Do you hear?! Possible! Even in such an emergency. However, unfortunately, only a few can withstand 99% of the difficulties. But it is they who snatch their only chance from fate!

Hope you're on your way!

Now it's time to face the problem - it's easier to overcome what you know about. Read what medicine knows about this, and figure out which of the described cases of impotence is yours. Just don't overdo it, okay? So that it doesn't work out, like Harris from D. Jerome's story "Three Men in a Boat, Not Counting the Dog", who, after reading a medical reference book, found symptoms of all diseases in himself, except for puerperal fever. Take the information calmly! No fatalism!

What do they write there? "Impotence (erectile dysfunction) is the inability to achieve and maintain an erection of the penis necessary for sexual satisfaction." Oh-she-she, how scary - scared! Think dysfunction! A runny nose, for example, is also a dysfunction, as well as constipation, diarrhea and any disturbances in the body. These states are unpleasant, of course, and cause a lot of inconvenience to a person, but everything is temporary! Temporarily!

Read on. "Impotence can be organic and psychogenic ..." Well, well ... In order to exclude organic impotence, your man, of course, must decide to go to the doctor to establish the cause of the violations and, if any, you will have to undergo appropriate treatment. But don't forget, please: it's not WHAT a person does, but HOW he does it, that's why you can get from the same treatment: 1. benefit, 2. harm, 3. zero result. Help your man achieve exactly the benefits. Separate impotence as a secondary fact from its root causes - a true disease. This will strengthen male pride, fill it with the calmness and confidence necessary for recovery, and as a result, it will accelerate the onset of the desired result for both of you.

Another thing is if your man has psychogenic impotence. Here, dear, first of all, look at yourself. Yes Yes! Isn't it your reason? How do you look: desirable or "my eyes would not see her"? Do you want sex always and everywhere or do you have an eternal migraine, borscht and educational moments? How long have you had an orgasm with your man and what did you yourself do to achieve an orgasm? Do you care about his orgasm and are you ready for anything to satisfy your loved one? Well, what did you analyze? Now fix it now! Finally, free yourself from fatigue, inhibitions and laziness, reveal your sexual potential, shock him with a sudden passion - and his potency will not keep you waiting. Shock therapy works incredible miracles.

But, I beg you, the most important thing is not to make a fundamental mistake. Whatever the cause of your man's impotence, do not expect the result. Believe in him, but don't wait! Actually, forget about it. And, for real and completely! Think something like this: "Impotence? What is it? Well, yes, there is no erection. So what? Oh, what are you talking about? We don't give a damn about the norms! You never know what and by whom is accepted?! So, we are abnormal. He is, in general, an alien to me. Didn't you know? Yes! From the planet Alpha Centurion. Everyone is like that. Alpha Centurions have a functioning sexual organ differently than the earthlings. They only relieve their natural needs - and that's it. And for sex, imagine, they don't use it. That's it! But would you know what real alpha-centurion sex is?! And how many times a night it is possible And what is this sexual pleasure?! It's inexpressible!!!"

And don't just think so. Invent this very alpha centurion sex! After all, sex is really inexhaustible. Forget about traditional intercourse. After all, you've already tried it. Look for new pleasures in sex, experiment! And you won't regret living with an impo... No, it's a forbidden word! You won't regret living with an Alpha Centurion!!! Otherwise, you would never have known that sex is so multifaceted. Truly: "There would be no happiness, but misfortune helped!"

And one day... at the very peak of your alien pleasure... you suddenly feel... Oh, what is it? Really?! Finally! And how? Whoo-hoo!!! Oh mama mia!

Do not hesitate, your alien will definitely turn into an earthling. And everything will be in full again, like all normal men and women of the Earth. Yes, plus to this with all the new joys of alpha-centurion sex that have opened up to you! Please don't forget about them...

The miracle exists.
And the person creates it.
And (what is archival!) - a truly loving person.

Impotence is a serious blow for any man. Unfortunately, no one is immune from the appearance of impotence, most often it appears in the elderly or middle-aged men, but even young guys can lose the ability to have an erection. Almost all members of the stronger sex experience periodic weaknesses in bed, but this is not yet impotence and is often associated with severe moral or physical fatigue.

What is impotence and its symptoms

Impotence is a deviation of the normal physiological process of excitation of the penis. Thus, a man is not able to normally go into a state of erection. In other cases, the problem is the short duration of sexual intercourse, that is, there is the ability to become aroused, but there is no long-term retention of the penis in a state of erection. Medicine calls the disease erectile dysfunction.

This moment is quite delicate, since for different people the same situation can have completely different meanings. The line between pathology and the normal state is quite thin, for some it is impotence, while others may consider this same period the heyday of sexual life.

Not only the inability to go into a state of erection provokes problems, there are other symptoms that also indicate sexual weakness:

Libido is completely absent;

Ejaculation occurs very quickly;

There is no feeling of an end point, sometimes the eruption of the seed occurs uncontrollably;

A man does not feel an orgasm, and this causes serious damage to the psychological component and greatly affects social aspects: family relations are deteriorating, in society a person tries to step back or, on the contrary, decorate his achievements in bed;

Often impotence leads to depressive states, nervousness of a person;

There is no morning involuntary erection.

Compared to other organs, men are most concerned about their "dignity" and therefore provide proper care. It is worth consoling, life with impotence is not a sentence, there are opportunities to continue living normally, and often even restore male power.

Causes of the disease

There are both primary and secondary causes of impotence. If impotence occurs due to primary causes, the excitation of the penis does not occur at all. This type is quite rare, because basically there was an erection, but over time it became weaker or disappeared altogether. There are a lot of reasons for the second type of illness, while the lack of proper work can occur as a result of a change in the function of various stages of excitation. Since the reproductive system is complex and subtle, the function quite often feels negative impacts.

Living with impotence, which causes this phenomenon:

Psychological etiology - prolonged depression, stress, experiences often lead to weakness in bed;

Physical fatigue - we are talking not only about ordinary fatigue, but also overstrain. May occur due to lack of sleep, hard work, etc.;

Diseases of the endocrine system;

Pathologies or dysfunction of a neurological type;

Overweight or anorexia;

Diabetes;

Various pathological changes in the vascular system;

Congenital or acquired changes in the structure of the heart valve;

Hypertension;

Serious liver disease, up to liver failure;

The use of harmful substances - alcohol, tobacco, drugs;

Ailments affecting the male reproductive system;

Mechanical injuries of the genital organs;

The use of drugs with this side effect;

Unnatural sex, as well as an overabundance of substitutes.

It can be quite difficult or even impossible to independently determine the cause of dysfunction, since some of the problems are inside the body and are not visually visible. Therefore, a doctor should be engaged in treatment and diagnosis.

How to live with impotence

Not all men are able to admit their weakness in sexual terms, and the question of how to live with impotence in psychology is on the verge of life and death, for some, up to whether it is worth living. In fact, for a couple to be happy, it is not at all necessary to have an erection. The whole reason is in the head. Society imposes that a man should work, drink after work, watch football on TV and always look for sex. Is it worth it to say it's stupid? Mental pleasure far exceeds bodily pleasure, and impotence will never occur.

Problems associated with impotence will disappear by themselves if you psychologically recognize your usefulness even without sexual function. Of course, no one will put it on display, but it is necessary to take it easier on sex, since the wife can put up with her husband's impotence, and the family will continue a good life. Few wives can endure a constantly depressed, jealous, and nervous husband for a long time. It turns out that the main problem is not in impotence, but in relation to it.

How to live with impotence? To treat the problem calmly, understanding that life is not limited to this, because even before a person did not live only by sex. Refusal of the usual occupation will allow you to focus on the spiritual qualities of a person, which will only strengthen the marriage. The main thing is not to succumb to the psychological influence of society and feel like a full-fledged person.

In fact, putting up with the problem is far from the first solution, because you can try to return an erection. If impotence is caused by physiological causes and is not associated with diseases or age-related characteristics of the body, it is quite possible to restore sexual function.

Home treatment includes:

Healthy sleep. If the right relationship between sleep, work and rest is observed, the body will be able to restore its functions. Unfortunately, the modern world often uses male labor in harmful places or in large quantities. The correct mode is the key to health;

Proper diet. Nutrition during impotence plays an important role, because microcomponents are used for the formation of hormones and spermatozoa, they need a sufficient amount. You need to eat well, with enough calories, vitamins and minerals. Nutrition for impotence should be built on meat, eggs, fruits and vegetables, dairy products, nuts and cereals;

psychological component. You can use antidepressants for impotence only in the early stages of detecting a problem and for a short time. In general, the psychoemotional state should be normalized without the use of psychostimulating or depressing substances. Open, honest communication with your spouse will help solve many problems;

Sex therapy. There are special devices for impotence, which help to perform exercises to improve blood circulation in the genitals. Thus, it is possible to normalize blood flow, and often sexual function. At the same time, impotence happens only when having sex with certain types of girls, it is worth trying new varieties of making love with your wife.

Impotence is a serious problem that can happen in every family. Unfortunately, a very small number of families are able to withstand such a misfortune, in most cases sooner or later the marriage breaks up. However, this should not be the case, because impotence is not the end of the world. Firstly, there are various ways to return, so you should not immediately despair. Secondly, it is necessary to act as a united front, as in the case of any other problem that arises in the family. A wife should not distance herself from should not start blaming her for her problems. Spouses should unite and analyze the current situation together in order to find a joint solution. If the husband is impotent, then this is not a sentence, so you should read this article for information on what to do and how to live with it. In no case should you panic and allow emotions to prevail over you. If you care about your husband, impotent or not, you will stay by his side and help him deal with his problem.

Impotence in the modern world

Unfortunately, in the modern world, everything is far from being as simple as many would like. An impotent husband is now a full-fledged stigma that is terrifying for both the man and the woman who lives with such a man. And it is very difficult to get rid of it, because it is a kind of stigma. But you should understand that intimate life is not just called intimate - this is what happens only between you. So why is it so difficult to deal with this problem?

What it is?

So, impotence is the loss of erectile function by a man, which leads to the inability to have sexual intercourse. In the modern world, the image of a macho male is very common, so any man who loses the ability to have sexual intercourse can be considered as an inferior class. And that is why many husbands do not even share their problems with their wife, simply trying in every possible way to avoid her and, accordingly, sexual intercourse. But this only leads to more serious complications, since a woman may suspect her husband of infidelity or any other unpleasant affairs, which further increases the likelihood of a family split and subsequent divorce.

Causes of impotence

At the same time, in the modern world, impotence is becoming more common, and there are a huge number of reasons for this, from constant stress to unfavorable environmental conditions. Therefore, you should not see impotence as a personal problem and damage to your own image, as this is just a disease with which you need to see a doctor. And in this case, the wife should play a decisive role, since most men do not want to damage their ego so much and go to the doctor with intimate problems. Accordingly, it is his wife who must convince him of the need for such a step. As you can see, an impotent husband is a serious problem, but not at all in the sense in which many might think. This is a problem because of the prevailing stigma that must be overcome if you want to maintain happiness in the family.

Is the wife to blame?

However, before you go to the doctor, you need to think carefully and analyze the situation yourself, because the reason may not be physiological at all. There is a possibility that it is the wife who is the reason that the husband is impotent. What should the wife do in this case? How can this even happen? It turns out that very often there are cases of partial psychological impotence, that is, the reason lies not in physiological, but in psychological problems, and the spouse herself often acts as the root of these problems. She can criticize her husband, make fun of him, and criticism of his abilities in bed especially affects him. There may also be a lack of spiritual intimacy, which deprives some men of the desire for physiological intimacy. So first of all, you need to think about how you have behaved lately towards your spouse. Try to change your behavior, talk to him about your relationship, and so on. However, this is only a special case, and it often happens that the cause is indeed physiological. So your husband is impotent. What should a wife do in such a situation?

Possible reasons

The fact is that impotence is not something shameful and has nothing to do with a man's libido, because in most cases it is caused by a variety of diseases, such as atherosclerosis, diabetes, hypertension, and so on. As you can see, all these diseases damage the blood vessels, which reduces the blood supply to the penis, thereby making it impossible to get an erection. Accordingly, you need to monitor not only how the impotent husband behaves, but also what diseases he has manifested. There is a high chance that all his problems in bed are related to some serious illness, and you need to see a doctor as soon as possible. And this is no longer about the ability to have sexual intercourse, but about the health of your man, and even about a possible threat to his capacity and life. If your husband is impotent and does not want to be treated, then you will have to influence him, because this will be the only reasonable way. Therefore, try to explain to him how important it is to start treatment as early as possible.

Timely treatment

If a woman says to herself, “I love an impotent husband,” then the problem is already half solved. The fact is that impotence often becomes the result of a rather cool relationship between spouses, and not only because the wife no longer loves and praises her husband so much, but only criticizes him. The fact is that, as you have already learned, impotence most often does not occur on its own, but is the result of a disease. Moreover, there can be a lot of diseases that cause such an ailment, since impotence is manifested both due to diseases of the cardiovascular system, and due to diseases of the endocrine, genitourinary and even nervous systems. Therefore, a caring wife will quickly notice that something is wrong with her husband's health, so the problem will be eliminated effectively, and potency will gradually return to the man. So the task of the wife is to follow her husband, and even if he refuses to go to the doctor, as many men do, to convince him that timely treatment will benefit both him and the whole family. So you should not be the woman who writes "I'm cheating on my impotent husband", because such women not only do not help solve the problem, but they are also one of the main causes of this problem.

How to act?

In the event of such an unpleasant set of circumstances, the wife must be very careful not to offend her man in any way. As you already understood, this is not the end of the world, so you just have to accept the fact of illness and that now your husband is impotent. How to live on? This is a stupid question that for some reason appears on the Web very often. You need to live on in exactly the same way as before, but at the same time you just need to overcome an unpleasant disease. How to move on when your husband has the flu? That kind of question doesn't make sense, does it? The same goes for impotence. But only in this case it is worth understanding that many men become very closed and sensitive to intimate topics, so you will need to behave as carefully as possible and show care and love. If a man sees that you understand him, that you accept his problem and want to help him, then he himself is more likely to open up and happily work to regain his masculine power.

But first of all, you need to understand that there should not be any psychological problems in your family, since in this case no clinic will help you. There must be love and understanding in the family, and only in this case you will be able to deal with the physiological factors that cause problems. So, as you can see, you do not need to decide how to live with an impotent husband. You need to focus on how you can heal your husband.

Spouse Activity

If your husband has become impotent, then you need to see a doctor who will help determine the cause and prescribe treatment. However, as mentioned earlier, there is no cure for impotence, there is only a cure for diseases that cause impotence. Therefore, you need to take matters into your own hands and promote further sexual life in your family. Potency does not immediately return to the man, so you need to take the initiative. This is much easier to do than you might think. You just need to use some unusual underwear, turn on the music, choose a new place, a new position, and most importantly - do not put any pressure on your man, and if he still does not succeed in bed, convince him that that everything is fine and he has nothing to worry about.

Increase in tone

Also, the general tone of the body affects the potency, so your husband should go in for sports. Now there are a large number of gyms, and it is likely that at his workplace there is already one that he can use for free. Naturally, this is not the only option, and you can inspire him to go out in the evenings for a run or just walk with him on foot. You can also give him a relaxing massage, and many experts recommend a contrast shower as a way to quickly and effectively increase the tone of the body.

Aphrodisiacs

When a woman has statements: “Husband has become impotent - what to do?”, Users often suggest using Viagra and other similar drugs. However, this is wrong advice, since such drugs only temporarily increase blood flow to the genitals, which does not give a long-term beneficial effect. You need to focus on foods that are called aphrodisiacs. This means that they increase a person's sexual desire, and if your husband constantly consumes such products, then his sexual function will not only return, but will become even better. Most often, aphrodisiacs include a variety of seafood, from mussels to oysters. It is also recommended to consume citrus fruits and a variety of spices, known for their miraculous properties. These include, for example, ginger, cloves and saffron.

What should not be done?

Since we are talking about Viagra and other similar drugs, you should pay attention to all the main points that neither husband nor wife should do if they are faced with this unpleasant problem. The most important point that you should always remember is that you first of all need to consult a doctor. Even when it comes to proven methods such as toning up the body and eating citrus products, you should always consult a doctor first. In no case do not use traditional medicine, as they, most likely, will only harm you or, at best, will not have any effect.

You should also work on your attitude towards this problem. You shouldn't ignore it, but you shouldn't pay too much attention to it either. No panic, no "doomsday". Together you need to seriously and calmly approach the problem, develop a strategy to deal with the disease and solve it once and for all. In no case do not try to look for the guilty, blame yourself or your husband. This will only make the situation worse.

What should a husband do?

A wife is the person who should help her husband in everything if he is faced with the problem of impotence. However, the main responsibility for treatment in this case still lies with the man. Therefore, he should independently understand the seriousness of the current situation and take the initiative. Firstly, he should not oppose visits to the doctor, but, on the contrary, independently express a desire to visit him. Secondly, a man should not be afraid or ashamed, especially in front of his own wife. It is with her that you first need to discuss the problem. Thirdly, you need to focus not only on the disease, but also on additional factors, such as a passive lifestyle, excess weight, and so on. Fourth, you need to follow exactly all the doctor's instructions, both in terms of treatment, and in matters of diet, physical activity, and so on. And fifthly, you need to be more attentive to the issue of sexual intercourse. Do not have sex during stressful experiences, when you are tired and when you are having a hard time. It is best to create ideal conditions for sexual intercourse in the event of a similar problem for a greater likelihood of success.

At the initial stage, married life is full of emotions, love and passion. Newly made husband and wife try to spend as much time as possible with each other. Also, the sex life is quite rich, bright. But, the well-known household routine reduces intimate relationships to nothing. Over time, men develop erectile dysfunction due to addiction, psychological disorders. Further, the woman admits that her husband is impotent. How to live with this is a rather difficult question. But, there are many ways to correct this situation. But, first, it is necessary to establish relations with her husband, bring him to a confidential conversation. So, if the husband is impotent, what to do?

The main causes of impotence husband can be divided into two groups: psychological and physiological. It has been established that the most common factor in the development of impotence is the psycho-emotional state of the husband. As already mentioned, the daily routine turns bright sex into a banal fulfillment of marital duty. First, the husband's libido decreases, which affects the number of sexual contacts. Over time, sex can simply disappear from the lives of spouses. Therefore, it is important to maintain romance and passion throughout the entire time of living together.

What to do if the husband is impotent

Excessive workloads, frequent stressful situations, conflicts in the family lead to psychological disorders. Very often, in the absence of proper rest, men become impotent. It is worth noting that single, rare failures in bed are considered the norm. After all, no one is immune from the influence of external factors. But, as soon as cases of fiasco occur with enviable regularity, there is reason to talk about impotence.

With a single fiasco, it is very important that the wife respond adequately. Do not attach great importance, focus on a single case. So it is much easier for the husband to cope with the problem on his own, the mental state will not be shaken. If the husband became impotent quickly enough, you need to look much deeper. An unsuccessful first sexual experience can lead to this disease. In any case, first of all, you need to openly and frankly talk with your husband.

If the husband became impotent against the background of physiological reasons, it is worth noting the following diseases:

• Diseases of the cardiovascular system;
• Injuries of the pelvic organs;
• Prostatitis;
• Urethritis;
• Sexually transmitted diseases;
• Inflammatory processes in the body;
• Diabetes;
• Violations of the endocrine system;
• Hormonal imbalance;
• Thyroid dysfunction.

In addition, do not forget that the husband has bad habits. Drinking alcohol, smoking sooner or later will make the husband impotent. Therefore, it is important for a wife to follow the lifestyle of her man. The factors leading to impotence include diet. Trying to feed her beloved husband with various sweets, pastries, fatty fried meat, a woman does not even think about the serious consequences. Therefore, if your husband is impotent, you need to review the daily menu.

What to do if the husband is impotent?

Sooner or later, women begin to complain that the husband is impotent. How to live and what to do in such a situation? Over time, any sex becomes commonplace. To return the husband to his former strength, or to maintain the existing one, it is worth following some rules. It is important for a wife to have a positive impact on a man on a psychological level, to take care of herself, to balance her husband's diet. If the spouse is always in a good mood, impotence will not threaten him for a long time. Therefore, so that the husband does not become impotent, a woman needs to make every effort and ingenuity.

Psychological impact

To maintain normal potency in a husband, it is important to maintain a favorable stop in the house. Stress at work is hard to avoid. Therefore, coming home, a man should feel relaxation, bliss. If conflicts continue at home, sexual desire disappears very quickly. And sex itself becomes rare. Even if the wife has some claims against her husband, they should be stated calmly, without scandals.

Unfortunately, the saying "my husband is impotent" is not uncommon. Few people know how to live with this problem. If you have begun to notice serious changes in your sex life, the first psychological impact lies in a confidential conversation. You can not blame a man for this problem. It is worth arranging it, coming to the rescue, offering options for solving the problem. Usually the spouse , seeing support in your face, will try to change the situation. Sometimes a simple conversation is enough. The husband begins to fully trust his wife, which leads to the restoration of potency. After all, talking with your wife or a psychiatrist is considered one of the options for treating psychological impotence.

Everyone knows that men love their eyes. The main role in intimate relations between spouses is played by the appearance of the wife. You need to meet your husband from work in full readiness, and not with a dirty head, in an old stretched T-shirt. If the husband is impotent, the initiative in sex should be taken by the woman. At this time, all the framework and internal prohibitions are relegated to the background. As a rule, such emancipation brings new sensations, returns potency to the spouse.

Diet

If the husband is impotent, you need to debug the daily menu of the spouse. Factors such as excessive cholesterol levels in the blood, cholesterol plaques in the vessels, and excess weight lead to impotence. All this is due to malnutrition. Therefore, fatty fried foods, smoked meats, salty foods, sugar, a large number of pastries and sweets are completely excluded from the husband’s menu. Also, it is necessary to significantly reduce the consumption of coffee, soda, alcohol.

Instead, the menu is saturated with aphrodisiac products that increase the level of testosterone in the blood and cleanse the blood vessels. This diet is rich in zinc, selenium, potassium, iron, calcium and magnesium. The following food can help an impotent husband:

• Nuts;
• Sour cream;
• Greens;
• green onions;
• Garlic;
• Seafood;
• Fresh vegetables and fruits;
• Bananas;
• Citrus;
• Lean meats.

Every man is proud of his masculine strength, because the blood of his ancestors boils in his veins - males, miners, conquerors. What happens to a man when he loses this power? Impotence is a terrible blow, first of all, to pride. Some rush to doctors for help, others - to grandmothers - healers, others simply close in on themselves. There are also those who begin to blame women for their weakness and start or random ladies they meet. In all cases, a single goal is pursued - to make your reproductive organ work again! What should a woman do in such a situation, how should she behave? After all, she, too, suffers from this turn of life.

Tips for a woman whose husband is impotent:

1. Do not take dirty linen out of public

It often happens that a woman, having learned about her husband's impotence, hurries to seek support from relatives or friends. Under no circumstances should this be done! No matter how much you ask to keep your secret secret, gossip, chuckles behind your back and gossip will still begin. Sooner or later, all this will reach the husband. After such a betrayal on your part, saving the situation and saving the marriage is out of the question.

2. Don't be ironic

If you still love your husband and do not want to leave him in difficult times, then do not humiliate him, reproaching him for not being able to satisfy your sexual desires. There is no need to be ironic about his male impotence, such pressure from a loved one is disastrous, and an already deplorable situation will only worsen.

3. Trust each other

Usually a man is ashamed of his impotence and does not want to discuss this topic with his wife, naively hoping that everything will work out by itself. But the problem exists and it is extremely serious. A wife should try to convince her husband to trust her. Spouses together will be able to find a solution to the problem that makes their family life inferior. You can go together to an appointment with a sex therapist, a psychologist, or ask a nutritionist for advice and stick to a diet with stimulating dishes that increase potency.

4. Support your significant other

Despite your own feelings, support your husband, let him know that you still love him and do not want to live without him. As for sex, then inspire the man that you want only him and are ready to look for a solution to the problem with him. This will give him hope, instill confidence that impotence is not the end of life.

5. Don't force sex

Be patient and in no case do not force a man to intimacy. You can not insist if you know that he has problems with potency. At the same time, you can’t completely leave your husband without affection, without light flirting. Tenderness and affection can work a miracle, you need to try again and again, but without excessive perseverance.

6. Avoid self-medication

Constant frequent use of stimulants can only worsen the condition of a man. Viagra will solve the problem once, twice or three times, but on the fourth, fifth it will only get worse. You need to make a joint decision and go to an appointment with a specialist, it is he who will prescribe those drugs that will help increase potency.

The most important thing that a woman must decide for herself is whether she is ready to be there, help, wait, endure. Does she love a man so much that she can put up with the lack of an erection. If love is real, then even if impotence cannot be cured, you can find a bunch of other solutions so that a man can satisfy a woman.

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Impotence is a serious problem that can happen in every family. Unfortunately, a very small number of families are able to withstand such a misfortune, in most cases sooner or later the marriage breaks up. However, this should not be the case, because impotence is not the end of the world. Firstly, there are various ways to return, so you should not immediately despair. Secondly, it is necessary to act as a united front, as in the case of any other problem that arises in the family. A wife should not distance herself from should not start blaming her for her problems. Spouses should unite and analyze the current situation together in order to find a joint solution. If the husband is impotent, then this is not a sentence, so you should read this article for information on what to do and how to live with it. In no case should you panic and allow emotions to prevail over you. If you care about your husband, impotent or not, you will stay by his side and help him deal with his problem.

Impotence in the modern world

Unfortunately, in the modern world, everything is far from being as simple as many would like. An impotent husband is now a full-fledged stigma that is terrifying for both the man and the woman who lives with such a man. And it is very difficult to get rid of it, because it is a kind of stigma. But you should understand that intimate life is not just called intimate - this is what happens only between you. So why is it so difficult to deal with this problem?

What it is?

So, impotence is the loss of erectile function by a man, which leads to the inability to have sexual intercourse. In the modern world, the image of a macho male is very common, so any man who loses the ability to have sexual intercourse can be considered as an inferior class. And that is why many husbands do not even share their problems with their wife, simply trying in every possible way to avoid her and, accordingly, sexual intercourse. But this only leads to more serious complications, since a woman may suspect her husband of infidelity or any other unpleasant affairs, which further increases the likelihood of a family split and subsequent divorce.

Causes of impotence

At the same time, in the modern world, impotence is becoming more common, and there are a huge number of reasons for this, from constant stress to unfavorable environmental conditions. Therefore, you should not see impotence as a personal problem and damage to your own image, as this is just a disease with which you need to see a doctor. And in this case, the wife should play a decisive role, since most men do not want to damage their ego so much and go to the doctor with intimate problems. Accordingly, it is his wife who must convince him of the need for such a step. As you can see, an impotent husband is a serious problem, but not at all in the sense in which many might think. This is a problem because of the prevailing stigma that must be overcome if you want to maintain happiness in the family.

Is the wife to blame?

However, before you go to the doctor, you need to think carefully and analyze the situation yourself, because the reason may not be physiological at all. There is a possibility that it is the wife who is the reason that the husband is impotent. What should the wife do in this case? How can this even happen? It turns out that very often there are cases of partial psychological impotence, that is, the reason lies not in physiological, but in psychological problems, and the spouse herself often acts as the root of these problems. She can criticize her husband, make fun of him, and criticism of his abilities in bed especially affects him. There may also be a lack of spiritual intimacy, which deprives some men of the desire for physiological intimacy. So first of all, you need to think about how you have behaved lately towards your spouse. Try to change your behavior, talk to him about your relationship, and so on. However, this is only a special case, and it often happens that the cause is indeed physiological. So your husband is impotent. What should a wife do in such a situation?

Possible reasons

The fact is that impotence is not something shameful and has nothing to do with a man's libido, because in most cases it is caused by a variety of diseases, such as atherosclerosis, diabetes, hypertension, and so on. As you can see, all these diseases damage the blood vessels, which reduces the blood supply to the penis, thereby making it impossible to get an erection. Accordingly, you need to monitor not only how the impotent husband behaves, but also what diseases he has manifested. There is a high chance that all his problems in bed are related to some serious illness, and you need to see a doctor as soon as possible. And this is no longer about the ability to have sexual intercourse, but about the health of your man, and even about a possible threat to his capacity and life. If your husband is impotent and does not want to be treated, then you will have to influence him, because this will be the only reasonable way. Therefore, try to explain to him how important it is to start treatment as early as possible.

Timely treatment

If a woman says to herself, “I love an impotent husband,” then the problem is already half solved. The fact is that impotence often becomes the result of a rather cool relationship between spouses, and not only because the wife no longer loves and praises her husband so much, but only criticizes him. The fact is that, as you have already learned, impotence most often does not occur on its own, but is the result of a disease. Moreover, there can be a lot of diseases that cause such an ailment, since impotence is manifested both due to diseases of the cardiovascular system, and due to diseases of the endocrine, genitourinary and even nervous systems. Therefore, a caring wife will quickly notice that something is wrong with her husband's health, so the problem will be eliminated effectively, and potency will gradually return to the man. So the task of the wife is to follow her husband, and even if he refuses to go to the doctor, as many men do, to convince him that timely treatment will benefit both him and the whole family. So you should not be the woman who writes "I'm cheating on my impotent husband", because such women not only do not help solve the problem, but they are also one of the main causes of this problem.

How to act?

In the event of such an unpleasant set of circumstances, the wife must be very careful not to offend her man in any way. As you already understood, this is not the end of the world, so you just have to accept the fact of illness and that now your husband is impotent. How to live on? This is a stupid question that for some reason appears on the Web very often. You need to live on in exactly the same way as before, but at the same time you just need to overcome an unpleasant disease. How to move on when your husband has the flu? That kind of question doesn't make sense, does it? The same goes for impotence. But only in this case it is worth understanding that many men become very closed and sensitive to intimate topics, so you will need to behave as carefully as possible and show care and love. If a man sees that you understand him, that you accept his problem and want to help him, then he himself is more likely to open up and happily work to regain his masculine power.

But first of all, you need to understand that there should not be any psychological problems in your family, since in this case no clinic will help you. There must be love and understanding in the family, and only in this case you will be able to deal with the physiological factors that cause problems. So, as you can see, you do not need to decide how to live with an impotent husband. You need to focus on how you can heal your husband.

Spouse Activity

If your husband has become impotent, then you need to see a doctor who will help determine the cause and prescribe treatment. However, as mentioned earlier, there is no cure for impotence, there is only a cure for diseases that cause impotence. Therefore, you need to take matters into your own hands and promote further sexual life in your family. Potency does not immediately return to the man, so you need to take the initiative. This is much easier to do than you might think. You just need to use some unusual underwear, turn on the music, choose a new place, a new position, and most importantly - do not put any pressure on your man, and if he still does not succeed in bed, convince him that that everything is fine and he has nothing to worry about.

Increase in tone

Also, the general tone of the body affects the potency, so your husband should go in for sports. Now there are a large number of gyms, and it is likely that at his workplace there is already one that he can use for free. Naturally, this is not the only option, and you can inspire him to go out in the evenings for a run or just walk with him on foot. You can also give him a relaxing massage, and many experts recommend a contrast shower as a way to quickly and effectively increase the tone of the body.

Aphrodisiacs

When a woman has statements: “Husband has become impotent - what to do?”, Users often suggest using Viagra and other similar drugs. However, this is wrong advice, since such drugs only temporarily increase blood flow to the genitals, which does not give a long-term beneficial effect. You need to focus on foods that are called aphrodisiacs. This means that they increase a person's sexual desire, and if your husband constantly consumes such products, then his sexual function will not only return, but will become even better. Most often, aphrodisiacs include a variety of seafood, from mussels to oysters. It is also recommended to consume citrus fruits and a variety of spices, known for their miraculous properties. These include, for example, ginger, cloves and saffron.

What should not be done?

Since we are talking about Viagra and other similar drugs, you should pay attention to all the main points that neither husband nor wife should do if they are faced with this unpleasant problem. The most important point that you should always remember is that you first of all need to consult a doctor. Even when it comes to proven methods such as toning up the body and eating citrus products, you should always consult a doctor first. In no case do not use traditional medicine, as they, most likely, will only harm you or, at best, will not have any effect.

You should also work on your attitude towards this problem. You shouldn't ignore it, but you shouldn't pay too much attention to it either. No panic, no "doomsday". Together you need to seriously and calmly approach the problem, develop a strategy to deal with the disease and solve it once and for all. In no case do not try to look for the guilty, blame yourself or your husband. This will only make the situation worse.

What should a husband do?

A wife is the person who should help her husband in everything if he is faced with the problem of impotence. However, the main responsibility for treatment in this case still lies with the man. Therefore, he should independently understand the seriousness of the current situation and take the initiative. Firstly, he should not oppose visits to the doctor, but, on the contrary, independently express a desire to visit him. Secondly, a man should not be afraid or ashamed, especially in front of his own wife. It is with her that you first need to discuss the problem. Thirdly, you need to focus not only on the disease, but also on additional factors, such as a passive lifestyle, excess weight, and so on. Fourth, you need to follow exactly all the doctor's instructions, both in terms of treatment, and in matters of diet, physical activity, and so on. And fifthly, you need to be more attentive to the issue of sexual intercourse. Do not have sex during stressful experiences, when you are tired and when you are having a hard time. It is best to create ideal conditions for sexual intercourse in the event of a similar problem for a greater likelihood of success.

Impotence is a devastating diagnosis not only for a man, but also for his life partner, that is, his wife. There is a category of women who, at the slightest sexual problems, prefer to look for another man without problems, and there are those who are able to share the fate of a man, even help him cope with impotence. Specialists also have an arsenal of techniques and advice on what to do if the husband is impotent and how to help him.

Despite the fact that most men prefer to hide their problems, especially when it comes to the genitals, sooner or later the spouse understands what is happening to her husband. In Internet forums, questions are increasingly full of questions, advise a cure for impotence for a husband, how to live with an impotent, how he can be helped, and the like. The urgency of the problem is due to the fact that the number of patients diagnosed with erectile dysfunction is constantly growing.

The woman's fault?

Surely, the first sign of sexual impotence and dysfunction of the genital organs in a man appears when he does not notice his wife, closes in himself, shows irritability, and is also in a depressed state. Of course, it is not advisable to talk about such a serious diagnosis without consultation, since impotence does not suddenly arise from scratch, but can be a problem that has been “acquired” over the years.

A wise and loving woman will first try to analyze her relationship with her husband, trying to understand the psycho-emotional state of a man. There are cases when an unfavorable microclimate in relations between a woman and a man can lead to temporary psychogenic impotence. The following factors may contribute to this:

• regular criticism of a man's abilities in private and in society;
• ridiculing his shortcomings and weaknesses of character;
• a clear demonstration of dissatisfaction with sexual life with a man;
• lack of spiritual intimacy between partners.

For reference! Many women tend not to take care of themselves after several years of marriage, which can also have a negative impact on the visual perception of a man, as well as on the level of his libido.

To begin with, it is in the power of a woman to try to renew a trusting and loving relationship with her husband. and also try to attract him sexually. If a woman has the listed mistakes, accordingly, the state of affairs should be corrected and not allowed again.

Physiological causes of impotence

It is no secret that no treatment will help in the fight against impotence, if in a laboratory a specialist does not determine the causes of the pathology, and the doctor does not eliminate these causes through treatment. Erectile dysfunction never enters into an independent disease, but is a consequence of other pathologies in the body, namely:

• vascular pathologies;
• heart disease;
• pathology of the endocrine system;
• hormonal imbalance;
• or drug addiction;
• diseases of the nervous system;
• infections and inflammatory processes of the genitourinary system;
• injuries of the genital organs, pelvic organs;
• previous operations on the abdominal organs;
• spinal cord or brain injury;
• alcohol abuse;
• uncontrolled intake of certain drugs, etc.

The ability of a man in bed can be significantly reduced due to frequent stressful situations, depression, beriberi and depletion of the body with improper poor nutrition and excessive overwork. Many women do not pay attention to the lack of sexual life, as it is first of all convenient for them. In fact, this may be a signal of the presence of serious abnormalities in the body.

What is a woman to do?

Those women who are worried about erection problems in their spouse, in most cases, want to know how to excite an impotent, and also how to resume their previous sexual life. Many of the men who are faced with erectile dysfunction do not even realize how valuable the help and support of a spouse can be. In fact, such a diagnosis requires a lot of effort from both partners.

How quickly and easily a man can overcome his fears against the background of impotence depends on the behavior of a woman. It is very important not to allow any "below the belt" jokes and reproaches about this topic. It is very important that a man be able to trust a woman and admit that he suffered such a fate. A loving woman will always treat the problem with understanding, as this is all curable.

The main task of the wife is to take all responsibility for sexual life on herself.. She should show maximum activity in bed, be able to quickly excite her man, and also not respond to a weak erection or its temporary absence. The wife should be uninhibited, courageous and have no boundaries in terms of sexual games that can eliminate the family routine.

A wife's trump card can be eyes burning with passion, revealing underwear and no less frank conversations., flirting and flirting, subdued light, intimate atmosphere, the use of stimulating aroma oils, etc. Despite the diagnosis of impotence, a man can arouse sexual desire and desire. The main task of the wife is also to make the man feel desirable. Self-confidence and the absence of complexes will speed up the healing process.

How to improve the tone of the whole body?

The sexual activity of a man, as well as his general state of health, also depends on the physical condition and muscular basis. Therefore, a spouse can go to the gym with her man, go to different sports, such as swimming or volleyball. Any physical activity contributes to a speedy recovery, especially when it comes to cardio. An excellent alternative would be evening walks together in the open air.

The desired effect can be achieved with a relaxing massage, especially if a woman finds those points on the body that are responsible for the sexual function of a man's body. Help with this method can smoothly develop into an intimate massage. A contrast shower can improve blood flow, it’s good if a man takes such water procedures with his woman. The same methods of exposure include a sauna, where you can also spend time together.

What is forbidden for a woman to do?

To improve a man's sexual health, you can use certain products that increase libido and additional testosterone production. Experts refer to such products as aphrodisiacs, for example, seafood, poultry meat and lean fish, chicken eggs, as well as greens, fresh vegetables and fruits. At the same time, it is forbidden to resort to the help of alternative medicine, unless the approval of a doctor has been obtained.

A big mistake for a woman will be ignoring the problem and, conversely, excessive panic and anxious behavior. You should not look for someone to blame for problems, if the husband does not pay attention to his wife, accuse him of treason. Also, do not bring family problems for general discussion with friends or relatives, as this can have an extremely negative impact on a man's self-esteem.

What a wife should:

• tactfully treat the problems of the spouse;
• do not let go of sharp remarks;
• be always ready to help a man;
• read literature about the treatment of the problem;
• do not focus on failures in the bedroom;
• try to solve the situation together;
• replace traditional sex with alternative methods in case of erectile dysfunction;
• maintain a spiritual connection and a favorable climate in communication with her husband.

The task of a man is to visit a specialist in a timely manner, undergo a thorough diagnosis, and fulfill all the doctor's prescriptions. In addition, a man needs to entrust his problems and worries about this to his wife. In order for the treatment to bear fruit faster, it is worth adjusting the diet, eliminating problems with being overweight, leading an active lifestyle, and taking vitamins.

Impotence is a disease that requires the study of etiology and prerequisites. Treatment should be comprehensive, which means eliminating the causes of problems, the problems themselves, as well as the consequences and complications against this background. You need to understand that the speed of recovery and success in the fight against impotence largely depends on the woman. Support, understanding, joint efforts and work in tandem - all this is the key to the speedy restoration of the husband's sexual activity.